There are some particular cases of human love.
The first is homosexuality. Naturally, love arises between men and women, and in the case of homosexuality, males love males, females love females. Someone asked us: "Why are there so many homosexuals now?" We answered, "There will be more!" When you understand the causes of homosexuality, you will see why there will be more people with homosexuality.
SPECIFIC CASES
There are some particular cases of human love. The first is homosexuality. Naturally, love arises between men and women, and in the case of homosexuality, males love males, females love females. Someone asked us: "Why are there so many homosexuals now?" We answered, "There will be more!" When you understand the causes of homosexuality, you will see why there will be more people with homosexuality.
When the brain functions correctly, people love ones of the opposite sex. But when a part of the brain goes wrong, people can love ones of the same sex, more severely, they can love children, even child sexual abuse. Children are never objects of sexual desire, so whoever has this desire has a damaged brain, and the reason will be discussed in the next section.
The second case is incest. In the world, among ones of blood-relations always appear bioelectricity that prevents sexual activity between two people who are very closely related in a family. But when the brain is broken, people are incestuous.
The third case is rape. Usually, before having sex with someone, you have to fall in love with her/him first. Rape is the use of violence to force someone to satisfy your sexual desires when they do not want to. The desire is over the limit since the brain is damaged.
Why do brain damage lead to sexual problems like homosexuality, child sexual abuse, incest, rape, etc.? Because of people's self-indulgent lifestyle, they have many partners. Due to the influence of films, especially Western lifestyle, people are more and more indiscriminate in their choice of partners, like to sleep around, so their limit of sexuality breaks and after a time, this limit in the brain also breaks; thus, people start to have illnesses, and first is homosexuality.
Once a man asked us, "Dear Master, I am a strong and healthy person. I have a family with a wife and some children, and some mistresses. Many women love me because I'm talented, handsome, and wealthy, and I couldn't refuse their love. But recently I feel like a man incredibly, and I know that I began to have a gay disease. I do not understand why, and I try to hide my feelings because if people know that I'm a gay, they will avoid me and won't do business with me anymore. I have to restrain my feelings, but truly, it's too hard." We answered: "You haven't refused the feelings of others and that's the cause of homosexuality. Now how to cure it? The first is to refuse all others' feelings and avoid all of your mistresses. The second is to worship Buddha and repent of your sin before Him. The third is to practice qigong to restore the brain."
A few days later, his wife also called us to talk about her husband's illness. The husband had confided his illness to his wife right after he knew that so that she could help him overcome the disease, or else he will make more serious mistakes. He had good seeds that when his illness started, he confided to his wife and called a monk. We patiently explained his problems using the law of Cause and Effect. And when the wife called us, we still gave her the same explanation. She said that her husband couldn't meditate as his mind was too chaotic. We said that we didn't advise him to meditate since those who have a gay/lesbian disease cannot sit in meditation since their brains are broken. We only told him first to end all sexual relationships, second to worship and repent before Buddha, and third to do qigong.
After a month of practicing a healthy lifestyle, worshipping and repenting before Buddha, his illness diminished, though he still took Western medicine. We advised him to stop using Western medicine because psychotropic drugs will damage the nerves. Just do the three things that we recommended, but it must be three years, then the disease would eradicate. Please remember it must be three years, so do not expect after some months, so please be patient.
Written by:
Janna
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