Most students who are involved in unnecessary love at school don't
behave well to their parents. ” Sometimes, we believe that our love for others could bring them happiness. However, it turns out that we can destroy their lives. Only people who are very wise and moral can bring their lovers happiness and progress.
IF YOU’RE SINCERE
The whole class turned to the door to look at Uyen standing there with a paper in her hand. She looked gentle but serious. She said:
“ Hi, I have a letter for Long. ”
The whole class made a fuss over that act. Everyone knew that Long had fallen in love with Uyen for a long time. He was in the third year of college, while Uyen was in the second year. His classmates felt pity for his unrequited love, so they tried to support him in pursuing Uyen. The International Women's Day was coming soon, so Long mustered up his courage to write Uyen a letter, enclosed with a rose. Of course, he had done that secretly. Who knew that Uyen would come to the class to answer his letter in public. Long's face turned red. He came to the door to get her letter and said thanks in his lowest voice.
As soon as Uyen went away, all of his 43 classmates rushed to take the letter away from him. One of them tried to read aloud the letter in a female voice.
“ Dear Long,
First, I'd like to thank you for your gift on Women's Day and your affectionate letter. I'd like to keep your rose and put it on my teacher's desk so the whole class can admire it together. Regarding your letter, I'd like to make it clear, so you can concentrate on your study, and so can I.
I have witnessed many couples breaking up. Most of them fell in love with each other when they were at school, which means they were too young. I suppose that they couldn't get along because of two reasons. One is that they had not been mature enough to choose their right partners. Most of them weren't experienced enough to understand their partners' thoughts. Their love is built upon quite an impulsive emotion of the youth.
Another reason is that they made a big mistake of falling in love while studying. They wasted their parents' effort to raise them. This kind of mistake diminished their blessings and led them to the breakup.
I think that students who fall in love while studying must be either geniuses who can still understand the lessons very well while flirting around, or irresponsible people who do not care about their parents' efforts and their own future.
I study very hard but I don't think I can completely satisfy my professors. So, if I'm distracted from my work to love someone, I might not be able to graduate. Or I'll graduate thanks to some tricks instead of my real ability. Later, when I take a job, I won't do my job well and so I will contribute negatively to the progress of our society.
I'm writing this letter to let you know my point of view. I hope you will help me with my studies instead of distracting my mind with student love. I also hope that you study hard to get your best result for your best future. Don't waste your time.
I'd like to make it clear that later in life, to choose a partner, I will ask this question first: 'Did you fall in love when you were at school?' If he says yes, I will go away immediately. If he says no, I will consider more criteria.
P/S: Most students who are involved in unnecessary love at school don't behave well to their parents. ”
Sometimes, we believe that our love for others could bring them happiness. However, it turns out that we can destroy their lives. Only people who are very wise and moral can bring their lovers happiness and progress.
Written by:
Janna
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