Why Do People Fall in Love? Understanding the True Causes of Love

Here we talk about the love between a male and a female. Why is a person in love with someone else when he/she grows up? Actually, this question is partially right because many people do not need to be grown up to be in love with others. A person told us that her child who was at preschool age had a girlfriend one year younger than him. So, don’t ask “why are people in love when they grow up?” as they can love at any age.

We have taught the children many things, including the lesson “Romantic love” to advise them to restrain themselves from falling in love at their ages because they are too young and shallow; hence very easy to make mistakes. After the lesson, students are asked to write down their thoughts on love. We were so surprised because they confessed that they all loved from grade 6,7,8,9 and even grade 4.

And the press also reports that people now fall in love when they are too young. Our parents told that at their time, male and female teenagers bathed in the river together. We don’t know if this was true, but it’s true that in the old days, people didn’t have much desire for sex, so their lives were quite pure. Why are people now in love at an early age? It’s because of movies and music. We have lots of movies and music about love. A child can sing something like “What if I die tomorrow? Will you cry for me? Why don’t you come to me when I’m still alive?’’ So, besides their instincts, children are also affected by the external conditions. This is very worrisome since to have romantic love at an early age causes people’s personality disorders.

Retrieved from “Love Marriage Family”

Janna